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Been there, done that, took longer than it should have. This is excellent advice for taking care of yourself and getting what you deserve.

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Good answer, Mr. Bowen.

Lovers and Other Strangers is a movie this reminded me of, her comment that he was not what she thought. In the movie, a son is being divorced by his wife because she does not feel the same. She tells his parents, when we first were together I used to smell his hair and it smelled like raisins and it doesnt' any more. Naturally the older people are bewildered. The son tells his father my wife and I are strangers. The father says everyone is strangers but as time goes on you become deeper strangers. Attitudes have changed since then, of course, but the movie is pretty good.

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